Step 1: Apologize
Step 2: Acknowledge that what you did was wrong
Step 3: Assure them that it will never happen again
I was watching an episode of my wife and kids earlier today and in the episode the dad was telling the son how to talk to girls but when it backfired he explained to him how to set things straight with the 3 A's. I thought it was interestingly true not only for girls but for everyone so I posted them above...
A lot of people have a hard time saying I'm sorry/I apologize or they'll be like im sorry you feel that way but they wont admit that they were wrong in doing what they did.... buuuuut it DOESNT matter if you dont think what you did or said was wrong, what matters is how the person on the other end perceived it to be. Simply put if the other person feels like it was wrong you have to apologize regardless of what you think...
Anyway if there is someone out there that you think deserves an apology or wants an apology from you just suck it up and say you're sorry you dont want to destroy a friendship or relationship just because you couldn't say those words... maybe seeing those "steps" will make it easier for you?....
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